{"id":57027,"date":"2024-01-17T15:35:09","date_gmt":"2024-01-17T14:35:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bygoodiebox.com\/welcome\/?p=57027"},"modified":"2024-01-17T15:35:11","modified_gmt":"2024-01-17T14:35:11","slug":"6-steps-to-banish-negative-self-talk-and-practice-compassionate-self-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bygoodiebox.com\/welcome\/6-steps-to-banish-negative-self-talk-and-practice-compassionate-self-care\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Steps to Banish Negative Self-Talk and Practice Compassionate Self-Care"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ next_background_color=”#fdf8f0″ _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#f4d6d2″ custom_margin=”-35px||||false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”-20px||||false|false” custom_margin_phone=”-120px||||false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” bottom_divider_style=”curve” bottom_divider_height_tablet=”” bottom_divider_height_phone=”35px” bottom_divider_height_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/bygoodiebox.com\/welcome\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/negative-1.png” alt=”Man” align=”center” _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” title_text=”negative 1″ sticky_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Europa regular||||||||” text_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_font=”Bely display||||||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#FFFFFF” header_line_height=”1.6em” text_orientation=”center” hover_enabled=”0″ header_text_align_tablet=”center” header_text_align_phone=”left” header_text_align_last_edited=”on|phone” text_orientation_tablet=”center” text_orientation_phone=”left” text_orientation_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]

6 Steps to Banish Negative Self-Talk and Practice Compassionate Self-Care.<\/span><\/span><\/h1>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|phone” _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#fdf8f0″ custom_padding=”||120px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”||120px||false|false” custom_padding_phone=”||50px||false|false” bottom_divider_style=”wave” bottom_divider_color=”#f4d6d2″ bottom_divider_height=”67px” bottom_divider_repeat=”3x” bottom_divider_height_tablet=”67px” bottom_divider_height_phone=”30px” bottom_divider_height_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Europa regular||||||||” text_font_size=”17px” text_line_height=”1.3em” header_font=”Europa regular||||||||” header_text_align=”left” header_font_size=”40px” hover_enabled=”0″ text_font_size_tablet=”17px” text_font_size_phone=”15px” text_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_font_size_tablet=”40px” header_font_size_phone=”40px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|desktop” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]

Do you ever find yourself thinking negative thoughts about yourself? Maybe you’re not good enough, smart enough, or attractive enough. Or do you criticize yourself harshly, even when you’re doing your best? Sounds familiar? You’re not alone. Many women struggle with negative self-talk, and it can have a significant impact on mental health and self-esteem.<\/strong><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/bygoodiebox.com\/welcome\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/negative-2.png” alt=”278850228_693474715304362_7740098291932517334_n” align=”center” _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” title_text=”negative 2″ sticky_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Europa regular||||||||” text_font_size=”17px” text_line_height=”1.3em” header_font=”Europa regular||||||||” header_text_align=”left” header_font_size=”40px” hover_enabled=”0″ text_font_size_tablet=”17px” text_font_size_phone=”15px” text_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_font_size_tablet=”40px” header_font_size_phone=”40px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|desktop” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]

The good news is that there are practical steps you can take to banish negative self-talk and practice compassionate self-care. Here are six steps to get you started:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Become Aware of Your Self-Talk<\/span><\/h2>\n

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The first step in banishing negative self-talk is to become aware of it. Pay attention to the thoughts that go through your mind and identify the ones that are negative or critical.\u00a0<\/span>Write them down in a journal or on your phone.<\/em><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>This will help you to recognize patterns and triggers.<\/p>\n

2. Challenge Negative Self-Talk<\/span><\/h2>\n

Once you’ve identified negative self-talk, challenge it. Ask yourself whether these thoughts are true or helpful. If not,\u00a0<\/span>try to reframe them in a more positive and self-compassionate way<\/em>.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Here are a few examples of reframing negative self-talk:<\/p>\n

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    • Instead of thinking “I’m a failure,” try thinking\u00a0<\/span>“I’ve learned from my mistakes and can do better next time.”<\/strong><\/li>\n
    • Instead of thinking “I’m not good enough,” try thinking\u00a0<\/span>“I’m doing the best I can.”<\/strong><\/li>\n
    • Instead of thinking “I’m not attractive,” try thinking\u00a0“I’m more than my appearance and have qualities that are valued by others.”<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Instead of thinking “I’ll never be as good as others,” try thinking\u00a0“I have unique strengths and qualities that make me who I am.”<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Instead of thinking “I’m not smart enough,” try thinking\u00a0“I have knowledge and skills that I’ve acquired over time.”<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n
    • Instead of thinking “I’ll never be able to do this,” try thinking\u00a0“I can break this down into smaller steps and work towards my goal.”<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      3. Practice Self-Compassion<\/span><\/h2>\n

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      Self-compassion means treating yourself with the same kindness, concern, and support that you would offer to a good friend.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/em>Practice self-compassion by acknowledging your feelings and validating them without judgment. Treat yourself with empathy and kindness.<\/p>\n

      4. Focus on Your Strengths and Accomplishments<\/span><\/h2>\n

      Instead of dwelling on your shortcomings, focus on your strengths and accomplishments.\u00a0<\/span>Write down three things you’re proud of or grateful for each day.<\/span><\/em>\u00a0<\/span>This will help you to shift your focus to the positive aspects of your life.<\/p>\n

      5. Surround Yourself with Positive People<\/span><\/h2>\n

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      Surround yourself with people who uplift you and make you feel good about yourself.\u00a0Avoid people who are negative, critical, or unsupportive.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/em>Surrounding yourself with positivity can help you to maintain a positive mindset.<\/p>\n

      6. Take Action Despite Doubts and Fears<\/span><\/h2>\n

      Michelle Obama has discussed the pressure she felt as a young woman to be perfect, saying “I had to learn how to put aside the doubts and the fears and just go for it.”\u00a0<\/span>Take action despite doubts and fears. Practice self-compassion and give yourself credit for trying, even if you don’t succeed.<\/span><\/em><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/bygoodiebox.com\/welcome\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/negative-6.png” _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” theme_builder_area=”post_content” title_text=”negative 6″ hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″ align=”center”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Europa regular||||||||” text_font_size=”17px” text_line_height=”1.3em” header_font=”Europa regular||||||||” header_text_align=”left” header_font_size=”40px” hover_enabled=”0″ text_font_size_tablet=”17px” text_font_size_phone=”15px” text_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” header_font_size_tablet=”40px” header_font_size_phone=”40px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|desktop” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]

      In conclusion, negative self-talk can have a significant impact on your mental health and self-esteem. By following these 6 steps you can banish negative self-talk and practice compassionate self-care.\u00a0<\/span>Remember that changing your inner dialogue takes time and effort, but it’s worth it in the end.<\/span><\/em><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_text=”Back To Blog” _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” theme_builder_area=”post_content” button_url=”https:\/\/bygoodiebox.com\/welcome\/blog\/” button_alignment=”center” custom_button=”on” button_text_size=”14px” button_border_width=”0px” button_icon=”#||divi||400″ button_icon_placement=”left” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_button][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#f4d6d2″ custom_padding=”||||false|false” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” custom_margin=”||-100px||false|false” sticky_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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